April 8th, 2005
|07:53 pm - Une Problem...|
hello everyone out there. I was hoping some of you could give me a little advice.
A friend of mine came to me with a problem a little while ago. She told me that she has a crush on one of our friends whom we've known for many years. Now she asked me what she should do...but...I'm not sure what to tell her.
This is my dilemma. My friends mostly come to me and ask me for advice, but this time around I have no clue what to say. I only had one boyfriend before and I met him through a friend. So I'm not really all that great in assisting in the relationship department.
Assistance would be nice, and greatly appreciated.
Current Mood: bored
Current Music: What You Waiting For? By Gwen Stefani
|Date:||April 9th, 2005 06:32 am (UTC)|| |
which friend is it?
anyhow..that's tough..because if she mentions anything, things could get "weird" between the two of them, especially if he doesn't feel the same way.
on the other hand, you never know unless you try, right? tell her if she has to mention anything to him, do so casually, don't just dump the news on him, cuz that would freak him out. OR maybe what she should do is invite him out for a movie or coffee (just the two of them) and see what happens naturally...
who knows really...it really comes down to what your friend feels comfortable doing...there's always that risk of losing a friendship in case things don't go well...but if she's willing to take a chance then go ahead.
email me the details...keep me up to date.
|Date:||April 13th, 2005 12:26 am (UTC)|| |
Whoa. When did this happen? What friend? (What boyfriend?)
Are you carrying on some secret life?